You can LOVE disciplining your child and let the guilt go.
You're trying to do Montessori, but you’re frustrated.
Every night you go to bed with a rock in your gut and a shadow over your shoulders. It’s guilt.
It whispers terrible, haunting things to you. Maybe it says, “Your best isn’t good enough,” or “Your child is going to grow up and hate you.” or “Why can’t stop losing your cool?” or “You’re a bad mom.”
You go check on your sleeping child - now breathing evenly, chubby cheeks relaxed, lashes fluttering softly - and your heart melts. Why can’t you just be the parent you want to be? Your child deserves better than this. You feel like you’re failing Montessori. And you’re failing your child.
The next morning, you wake up and think, “I’m going to do better. I must do better. Today is a new day.” And then you walk right into the same challenges you did yesterday with the same old discipline toolkit.
Screeching, throwing, hitting, ignoring you, refusing to cooperate…these are common behaviors for young children!
But - trust me - they don't want to behave like this either.
They want to feel peaceful, joyful. Just like you!
However, unlike an adult, your child's immature brain is not able to quickly find reasonable solutions to issues. So they resort to the only ways they know will work to get your attention. And then you find yourself stuck in the same cycle.
So what's a frazzled parent to do?
Yell? 😬
Send them to time-out? 😔
Take away their toys? 😢
Lock oneself in the bathroom? 😣
Hey… I'm not judging. Parenting is tough! Many people believe that stricter parenting = better behaved kids. Like if we’re just firmer and less tolerant our children will stop doing the thing that frustrates us.
And it’s kind of true. You can get any behavior to stop by intimidating your child. After all, you are bigger and stronger and will be for years and years.
The problem is that you KNOW this is not the Montessori approach! And it’s reallllllly not good for kids. Children who are raised with a very strict, authoritarian approach tend to end up more depressed, less resilient, and with lower self esteem. They have difficulty expressing their feelings and are more likely to act aggressively when cornered. None of us want that for our sweet children!
You are ready to embrace a kinder, more loving approach that is a MILLION TIMES healthier + effective in the long run.
We're talking “emotionally healthy and resilient in adulthood” kind of effective. Powerful stuff!
This Loving Discipline course will help you find the calm in your approach to discipline so that you can help your child learn to control and manage their emotional states. Not only will your child’s behavior improve with consistent use of these techniques, you will feel less stressed and ready to celebrate the joys of parenthood.
What if the next time your child had a meltdown, you...
remained firmly in control
stopped asking the internet for advice - you used your own loving toolkit instead.
didn’t need rewards, praise, or time-outs to get your child to cooperate.
felt proud of your approach to discipline
said goodbye to guilt and shame
Inside the Loving Discipline course, you’ll get a framework that will help you stop fighting your child’s behavior and start teaching them instead.
You’ll see the challenges of parenting young children in a healthier, happier light.
The Path to Loving Discipline is in Your Heart.
🚫 This is NOT for you if…
You want “nip it in the bud” solutions
You expect blind obedience, not collaboration.
You think children should demonstrate respect to you at all times just because you are an adult, regardless of how they feel.
If you want quick fixes, you’re going to need to go elsewhere because real discipline is about healthy relationships, and we are not in the business of controlling children. We want to help them.
♥️ This IS for you if…
You’re looking for genuine, gentle discipline that GOES WITH THE MONTESSORI METHOD.
You’re exhausted of the feelings of inadequacy.
You’re willing to go the extra mile - to do the work to truly help your child.
If this sounds like you, then the Loving Discipline course is going to feel like the perfect fit.
Hi! I'm Aubrey, a Montessorian and mom of two.
I'm the author of two parenting books: Baby's First Year Milestones and Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage.
As a lifelong Montessorian, I am passionate about respectful child development. I’ve centered my professional career on supporting independence, strengthening relationships, and nurturing a love for learning.
As a parent, I’ve had all the ups and downs myself! I understand intimately the need for a sympathetic ear and fresh perspective during those rough moments. I am centered on creating and maintaining a personal parenting philosophy molded to the unique needs of the whole family.
I want to help you become the nurturing, confident Montessori parent your heart is yearning for, and I’m cheering you on as you make these changes a permanent part of your life.
Parenting with confidence is a collaborative experience. Let’s find the power of LOVE together. I hope you join me in the Loving Discipline course!
In this course, you’ll learn…
6 highly effective love-focused discipline techniques
Why limits provide children with security and when to use them
How to forgive yourself for your parenting mistakes
We’re excited to enroll you into this special, time-limited membership. Your enrollment includes:
3-week course with over 3 hours of video content
Learning Journal
Three live workshops
5pm PST on February 17, February 24, and March 3
Recordings of the workshop
Group discussions
BONUSES:
Yoga Poses for Self Compassion PDF
21 Alternatives to Good Job PDF + printable cards (so useful!!)
Emotion Coaching for Self Compassion PDF
Simple Loving Language PDF
You have immediate access to the self-paced course and alll downloadable material upon enrollment. You will receive a special invitation to join the community within 24 hours of enrollment. Live events occur on Mondays, starting February 17. Program access concludes on May 31, 2025.